Comments on: Who’s In Charge? Understanding & Redirecting Our Inner Guardian

By: Marie

Marie — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 02:40:31 +0000

Abandonment- I allow myself abandonment for in abandonment is ecstasy and in ecstasy is living life to its fullest experience. No longer shall I drive away love in fear of its loss but now I shall love without fear for love never ends for it is life.
Estrangement- I allow myself estrangement from those who’s ‘love’ is conditional for their standards are not love and love shall ever be my standard for in love there is strength, respect and loyalty.
Lonely- I allow myself lonely for in aloneness I find inner and outer peace. It is not easy for in its silence I must face myself and love myself as I am in every way or I am a slave to myself and any who would exploit that fear.
Enslavement- I allow myself enslavement to life for life is enslaved to me. Seek not to be ruled by a man rather seek equality to share a common bonds rather then bondage.
Struggle- I allow struggle to no longer dictate how my life is lived, no more shall I struggle rather my life and everything within it shall FLOW in harmony toward my prosperous goals with fulfillment.
Loss- I allow the loss of all things that are negative within and around my life, for without loss there can be no replacement with the positive I seek. In this is true strength for it is wisdom acted upon.
Betrayal- I allow my inner guide to turn betrayal from my door. No longer will I judge another by my own standard rather by the measure he has grown to, for a leopard does not change his spots without death to his original form.
Unimportance to others- I am unimportant to others who are diseased by ignorance for I am important to myself, deserving of all good things in life. I am a woman, an earth goddess, full of potential and harvest, for earth is the foundation of all growing things.
Second class- I am second class to none, in my society I am judged by a false and skewed opinion. The things that make other women ‘better’ is in reality the chains of enslavement to patriarchy. In their enslavement they show their bitterness and fight amongst themselves for the very slave master that would degrade and use them as they have allowed, rather then rising up in goddess power to return what is right to its former glory and freedom.
Sexual but not sensual- I allow sexual and sensual to dwell together for I am loved and I love and thereby am deserving of pleasure and companionship with that which is my equal.
Superficiality- I allow superficiality, for only the truly wise can see beyond the shallow ripples in the waters surface to its unplumbed depths, allowing superficiality to weed out the shallow and ignorant that would judge from their ignorance. I am a lone wolf for the herd is diseased. I am a lone wolf and thereby the queen of my pack and they fear me, trying to attack the weakest points and yet if I remember all that I have said I am invulnerable to their disease and immune to their ignorance.

By: Corrina

Corrina — Mon, 29 Jun 2009 18:02:39 +0000

@Vaishnavi – You’re right on when you call it ‘ironic’. Often the strategies we adopt have the exact OPPOSITE outcome (e.g. designed for ease but creates stress) and as you so beautifully model, it’s when we enquire into the strategy that we can see this and then reconfigure our strategies. And yes you’re also spot on in that you’re a genius!

@Rosalind – Thanks for highlighting the importance of the thanking/accepting stage of the process. I do tend to think of each part of us having a personality and like anyone with a personality, being told we’re wrong just makes us dig our heels in more firmly. When we’re told “You’re fine just as you are”, the part/person can change freely.

For others reading, I had an EFT (‘tapping’) session with Rosalind which prompted me to write this post originally. She is a truly gifted practitioner; do check out her work: http://www.eft-tapping.co.uk

By: Rosalind Bubb

Rosalind Bubb — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 12:01:25 +0000

That’s very good, I like that!

You might be curious to know, that in a hypnotherapy setting, (using this NLP process which is called conflict resolution, or even core transformation,) the piece which makes the massive difference is really THANKING the part, so that you love it and appreciate it exactly the way it is, and it REALLY gets that it doesn’t HAVE to change at all – just use a different strategy if it feels like it.

By: Vaishnavi

Vaishnavi — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 18:11:15 +0000

I love this. I realised that the intense pressure and overwhelm I was experiencing (“On The Boil”) was ironically a strategy for Ease and Balance – ie the Guardian wanting to complete outstanding things this week so they’re not hanging over me when I start working 10 hours days.

So I’m creating overwhelm now in order to avoid possible future overwhelm which may never happen.

Genius.

New strategies here I come!

Love ya work! xxxxxxxxxx