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		<title>By: Corrina</title>
		<link>http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/#comment-347</link>
		<dc:creator>Corrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2010 08:18:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Emma - We got our wedding dresses from Oxfam. Fabulous solution all round. Mine was from Oxfam in Poole (Dorset) where they have a dedicated bridal team and we spent a good few hours there. Sam&#039;s was from the Cambridge Oxfam on Burleigh Street. They&#039;re not second-hand generally but rather have been used once in a fashion show and then donated. Totally brilliant brilliant.
.-= Corrina´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/no-bad-parts-how-to-handle-criticism-other-attacks/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;No Bad Parts: How To Handle Criticism &amp; Other Attacks&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emma &#8211; We got our wedding dresses from Oxfam. Fabulous solution all round. Mine was from Oxfam in Poole (Dorset) where they have a dedicated bridal team and we spent a good few hours there. Sam&#8217;s was from the Cambridge Oxfam on Burleigh Street. They&#8217;re not second-hand generally but rather have been used once in a fashion show and then donated. Totally brilliant brilliant.<br />
.-= Corrina´s last blog ..<a href="http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/no-bad-parts-how-to-handle-criticism-other-attacks/" rel="nofollow">No Bad Parts: How To Handle Criticism &amp; Other Attacks</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/#comment-345</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Apr 2010 21:49:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just an extra note that I just looked up hemp fabrics for wedding dresses and they seem to be intertwined with silk anyway. Oh dear - can anyone help on helping to find fabrics suitable for a wedding dress? (doesn&#039;t need to be too formal)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just an extra note that I just looked up hemp fabrics for wedding dresses and they seem to be intertwined with silk anyway. Oh dear &#8211; can anyone help on helping to find fabrics suitable for a wedding dress? (doesn&#8217;t need to be too formal)</p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
		<link>http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/#comment-344</link>
		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Apr 2010 21:35:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wedding dress fabric dilemma: can anyone help?!

This article from Corrina is quite timely! I am imminently about to have a wedding dress made and was going to use silk.

However, I just discovered today that most cultivated silk involves gassing/ boiling thousands of silk worms while they&#039;re in the cocoons so that they don&#039;t damage them when they come out. Not quite what I had in mind for my green wedding.

a) Does anyone know if wild silk, which involves harvesting silk cocoons of already hatched moths is truly ethical and not just publicity? (one website suggested it too had a darker side, though this was by a gasser/ boiler, so unsure! He did make a point that &#039;peace&#039; silk i.e. cultivated silk which lets the moths hatch, doesn&#039;t work as the subsequent caterpillars produced by these moths need to be killed/ starve).

b) Does anyone know of any good sources of ethical fabric that would be an alternative to silk? (fairtrade, organic, no child labour etc) Is hemp the main option?
 
Thanks for any advice anyone can give!

Emma</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wedding dress fabric dilemma: can anyone help?!</p>
<p>This article from Corrina is quite timely! I am imminently about to have a wedding dress made and was going to use silk.</p>
<p>However, I just discovered today that most cultivated silk involves gassing/ boiling thousands of silk worms while they&#8217;re in the cocoons so that they don&#8217;t damage them when they come out. Not quite what I had in mind for my green wedding.</p>
<p>a) Does anyone know if wild silk, which involves harvesting silk cocoons of already hatched moths is truly ethical and not just publicity? (one website suggested it too had a darker side, though this was by a gasser/ boiler, so unsure! He did make a point that &#8216;peace&#8217; silk i.e. cultivated silk which lets the moths hatch, doesn&#8217;t work as the subsequent caterpillars produced by these moths need to be killed/ starve).</p>
<p>b) Does anyone know of any good sources of ethical fabric that would be an alternative to silk? (fairtrade, organic, no child labour etc) Is hemp the main option?</p>
<p>Thanks for any advice anyone can give!</p>
<p>Emma</p>
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		<title>By: Corrina</title>
		<link>http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/#comment-287</link>
		<dc:creator>Corrina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 15:02:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Liz - So apt your point about collaborating rather than competing. Ruthie runs workshops in Cambridge to help women wannabe entrepreneurs create their business plans and when thinking of featuring her on this blog, I wondered &quot;Is this foolish? Will everyone go to her workshop rather than my Kickstart Your Venture one?&quot; And actually there is an overlap but there is also a big difference - she does the logistical literal business plan bit which I don&#039;t and I&#039;ve always wanted to find someone good who I can refer my clients/workshop participants to for that. When we truly follow our unique passion, we can feel safe that there&#039;s more than enough room for us all. We can trust in the unknown, that some people need what I offer, others need what you offer, and we can trust in the process rather than holding on possessively.

Miriam - Thank you for that link, it&#039;s amazing to discover how many people are doing so much - often through small steps which have big impact. Glad to have you here.

Rosalyn - I love your story! How mentioning your interest, putting feelers out, leads you into places you couldn&#039;t have planned for. And like you say how a tiny step can lead to great results. One of the best things I&#039;ve ever done career-wise was to offer a free 1-hour workshop for a conference. That led to someone hiring me who then introduced me to her whole leadership training network which led to more wonderful clients, workshop participants and we&#039;re now about to do a piece for a magazine together. We continuously marvel at how fortuitous it was that we both showed up that day. When we follow that &quot;Ooh that looks interesting...&quot; impulse, we naturally go down paths we&#039;re aligned with and that lead to results that are nourishing for us.
.-= Corrina´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;You Can’t Plan For Everything&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liz &#8211; So apt your point about collaborating rather than competing. Ruthie runs workshops in Cambridge to help women wannabe entrepreneurs create their business plans and when thinking of featuring her on this blog, I wondered &#8220;Is this foolish? Will everyone go to her workshop rather than my Kickstart Your Venture one?&#8221; And actually there is an overlap but there is also a big difference &#8211; she does the logistical literal business plan bit which I don&#8217;t and I&#8217;ve always wanted to find someone good who I can refer my clients/workshop participants to for that. When we truly follow our unique passion, we can feel safe that there&#8217;s more than enough room for us all. We can trust in the unknown, that some people need what I offer, others need what you offer, and we can trust in the process rather than holding on possessively.</p>
<p>Miriam &#8211; Thank you for that link, it&#8217;s amazing to discover how many people are doing so much &#8211; often through small steps which have big impact. Glad to have you here.</p>
<p>Rosalyn &#8211; I love your story! How mentioning your interest, putting feelers out, leads you into places you couldn&#8217;t have planned for. And like you say how a tiny step can lead to great results. One of the best things I&#8217;ve ever done career-wise was to offer a free 1-hour workshop for a conference. That led to someone hiring me who then introduced me to her whole leadership training network which led to more wonderful clients, workshop participants and we&#8217;re now about to do a piece for a magazine together. We continuously marvel at how fortuitous it was that we both showed up that day. When we follow that &#8220;Ooh that looks interesting&#8230;&#8221; impulse, we naturally go down paths we&#8217;re aligned with and that lead to results that are nourishing for us.<br />
.-= Corrina´s last blog ..<a href="http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/" rel="nofollow">You Can’t Plan For Everything</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Rosalyn</title>
		<link>http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/#comment-286</link>
		<dc:creator>Rosalyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Feb 2010 13:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was feeling a divided heart between my love of coaching and my desire to make a difference. I was making up that coaching had to be delivered only to rich people. 

One week I had a Facebook status about wanting to explore coaching and social justice. That led to a meeting and collaboration with another coach to deliver coaching to women who had suffered domestic violence. We put out feelers which didn&#039;t go anywhere AND they led me to a social enterprise Striding Out - http://www.stridingout.co.uk . Striding Out finds coaching solutions for young people, often disadvantaged young people and often from public sector funding. 

I&#039;m involved in something now which gives a couple of hours free career coaching to unemployed professionals, via Job Centre Plus.

That tiny tiny step of putting something &#039;out there&#039;, in my case on Facebook has had great results!

Rosalyn
.-= Rosalyn´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://rosalynclare-coaching.co.uk/unemployed-professionals/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;No cost career coaching for unemployed professionals&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was feeling a divided heart between my love of coaching and my desire to make a difference. I was making up that coaching had to be delivered only to rich people. </p>
<p>One week I had a Facebook status about wanting to explore coaching and social justice. That led to a meeting and collaboration with another coach to deliver coaching to women who had suffered domestic violence. We put out feelers which didn&#8217;t go anywhere AND they led me to a social enterprise Striding Out &#8211; <a href="http://www.stridingout.co.uk" rel="nofollow">http://www.stridingout.co.uk</a> . Striding Out finds coaching solutions for young people, often disadvantaged young people and often from public sector funding. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m involved in something now which gives a couple of hours free career coaching to unemployed professionals, via Job Centre Plus.</p>
<p>That tiny tiny step of putting something &#8216;out there&#8217;, in my case on Facebook has had great results!</p>
<p>Rosalyn<br />
.-= Rosalyn´s last blog ..<a href="http://rosalynclare-coaching.co.uk/unemployed-professionals/" rel="nofollow">No cost career coaching for unemployed professionals</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Miriam Dyak</title>
		<link>http://youinspireme.co.uk/2010/you-cant-plan-for-everything/#comment-278</link>
		<dc:creator>Miriam Dyak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 21:20:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post! What you are talking about and what Ruthie did is also called &quot;Social Artistry.&quot; Check out Jean Houston&#039;s work and the International Institute for Social Artistry to find a whole world of people taking these kinds of &quot;small&quot; creative steps: http://www.socialartistryinstitute.org/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post! What you are talking about and what Ruthie did is also called &#8220;Social Artistry.&#8221; Check out Jean Houston&#8217;s work and the International Institute for Social Artistry to find a whole world of people taking these kinds of &#8220;small&#8221; creative steps: <a href="http://www.socialartistryinstitute.org/" rel="nofollow">http://www.socialartistryinstitute.org/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Liz Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liz Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 17:45:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow, what a wondeful blog.  Thanks.

What&#039;s my passion?  Well it has got to be around connecting with coaches.  I&#039;m a coach myself and I love the energy of the coaching community. Such generous people, very supportive and keen to give.

I run networking events for coaches where presenters give their time for free and they then become participants and listen to others.  I become so inspired with these kinds of events.  I love it when people (businesses) are collaborating and supporting rather than competing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow, what a wondeful blog.  Thanks.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s my passion?  Well it has got to be around connecting with coaches.  I&#8217;m a coach myself and I love the energy of the coaching community. Such generous people, very supportive and keen to give.</p>
<p>I run networking events for coaches where presenters give their time for free and they then become participants and listen to others.  I become so inspired with these kinds of events.  I love it when people (businesses) are collaborating and supporting rather than competing.</p>
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