“At school, certain kids were being labelled as ‘disruptive’ or ‘low achievers’. Then we created a farm. Suddenly, these tough kids with harsh backgrounds were going gooey over the rabbits. It was the first time some of them had ever cuddled anything. They were people, not labels. That’s when it started for me.”

Jane Tewson is the pioneering imagination behind Comic Relief, PilotLight & Timebank. We’d met at the Chain Reaction event (see my earlier post) and I asked for her words of wisdom: What would she say to other women who had ideas that could make a real difference in the world, but were blocked from seeing them into action?

Her perspective is that our focus needs to be over there on those we want to help. “People sit back and say ‘I’d love to help’. I say, if you have an idea, just get in there. Go and test it out. If you want to work with homeless people, find out about a charity, visit the night hostel, learn more about the area. Talk to people, listen to what they need. Once you do that, you can’t not follow your passion”.

She finds her way through blocks that many of us would stumble over because of this focus. She’s also an advocate of acknowledging what you’re not so suited for. “The reason I do the work I do is that I learnt very early on that I’m not made of the stuff you need to work directly with people who are suffering. I do the second best – which is supporting those people who are made of that stuff.”

I tell her she makes it sound so easy. “You have to find where you are most able to use who you are. I recognise that I’m not very good at very much. I’m shy, I’m not good with numbers or writing or speaking. I’m not actually that clever or talented. At school, I really lacked confidence because of my dyslexia. As I’ve got older, I’ve got much more honest about that. What I am good at is being a catalyst. I have an idea, I think about all the people you need to get a campaign off the ground and I get us all together in a room to brainstorm. My role is to inspire people and help them feel confident about the idea. More and more, people just come and say, ‘I want to work with you’. I’ve been overwhelmed by that.”

As we find and follow our passion, what would it be like to make it less about us? Imagine if we could all put ourselves fully in service, warts and all, knowing that we aren’t brilliant at everything, that we won’t always be successful, but that we will act anyway because something other than us compels us to do so. Each of us carries ideas and gifts which others need. It is our duty and our honour to put them into action, into reality.

The World Needs Your Passion, so….

1) What’s it really about? Your dream, that nagging ambition that won’t go away…. Imagine that the idea is not yours, not for you, but that you are just a vehicle for it. Who are you carrying the idea for? Action: Make a list of the people your idea would help and commit to speaking with some of them about what they need and how you can help. (Some would call this ‘market research’)

2) What are the strengths that you currently have which you can rely on to help you turn this idea into reality? What are the areas you need to seek the help of others? Who could you enlist? Action: Contact them to ask for what you need.

3) Leave a comment here on this blog, letting us know what it’s like to see yourself as carrying an idea which is for others, what it’s like to put your focus on others, and what it’s like to enlist the help of others…

© Corrina Gordon-Barnes, 2009

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